Jordan's Family

Today I am grateful for my 2nd Family

I married into the most fun family ever. I feel so lucky to have two amazing families to be apart of. 

Vicki: Vicki is such a great mother in law. She has always been so welcoming and sweet to me. She always makes sure that everyone is happy and comfortable. She is so funny and has a great sense of humor. She is super competitive and knows how to throw a party!

Mike: Mike would literally do anything for his family. He has come over countless Saturdays to help with yard work  or any other projects we need help with. He has really taught Jordan well how to treat his wife. He could care less about money and objects, his heart is in the right place.

Colby: Colby is a very strong willed person. He knows what he wants and he does not care what anyone thinks about him. He also inherited the Bentley trait of being very good to his wife. He loves to joke around and have a good time.

Mandie: Mandie is a very fun person to be around. She enjoys having intelligent conversations. She is very creative and artistic. Family is very important to her. You can definitely tell how much she loves her husband. She is a busy girl and works hard for her family.

Brittany: Brittany is a very ambitious and hard working person. She does not settle for less than she believes she is worth. She sets high goals for herself and makes sure to achieve them. She is very smart and applies herself. She is the most dedicated person with reading scriptures and praying. She never misses a night!

Cassidy: What would we do without our Cassidy? She is such a good sport. She puts up with the teasing. She makes us laugh and always has hilarious stories. She is very confident in who she is. She does not care about the silly high school things and is very genuine and down to earth. She has a very big heart.

My Family

Today I am grateful for my family.
I have such an awesome family and want to give each one of them a little shout out! They so deserve it as they do so much for us. Love you guys!

My mom: My mom is the most selfless and Christlike person I've ever met. She always seems to remain so calm and loving, even when people wrongfully treat her. She is a great example to me. There are so many traits I hope to obtain from her. I love her so much!

My Dad: I think parts of me are a total daddy's girl. I always have valued my dad's opinion. I admired his ambition and success and knew I wanted those traits in a husband. It worked out well, because I found just that! My dad is incredibly knowledgeable in every single topic possible.

Brady: I always looked up to my big brother. I loved hanging out with him and thought he was so cool. He set a great example being the oldest child. He is so sweet and caring of his sisters. He has always been protective of us. He's very fun to talk to.

Stephanie: Oh Steph is such the life of the party! I love the presence she brings into our family. She is crazy fun. She is probably the wittiest person I've ever met. The things that girl says! No wonder her kids are such comedians! I love hangin with steph.

Karlie: Even though she is my oldest sister, I get along with her so well. I have always admired the mom she is. She is so easy to talk to and always seems to know exactly what to say. She is not afraid to speak her mind and I admire that in her. She is a very strong and confident woman.

Adam: One word to describe Adam. Opinionated. haha. But seriously Adam is a very interesting person to talk to. He is super smart and is very passionate about his thoughts and feelings. He is a great husband and father and helps around the house so much. 

Melanie: Oh Melanie is the sweetest of us all! I always hope that her goodness will rub off on me! I love that she is such a gamer and is always wanting to have a good time. She sacrifices so much for her family. She has such a strong testimony and always has a bright spirit about her.

Mike: Such a sweetie that Mike. Always trying to help out. He always puts everyone else's needs before his. The best thing about Mike, are his accidental blunt comments. Oh those always make us laugh. He's such a fun guy.

Rachael: Rach is the closest sibling in age to me. We've grown up being so incredibly close. We've had so many fun times. She is the funniest person. She's so fun to have around to make you laugh. She's such a dedicated mom. She always has my back. I miss hanging out with her all the time.

Matt: Matt is such a chill guy. He rarely seems to get mad. He loves to play hard, and I think that is important! He is so good to my sister. He is truly genuine with others' successes. He has never been one to brag or boast. He is very humble.

The Atonement

Today I am grateful for the Atonement.

Heaven knows I make many mistakes. And will continue to do so. Satan tries to put lies into our heads making us feel that we cannot repent because we are too far gone or have made too big a mistake. Surely Heavenly Father does not want to talk to us anymore. Lies! I know I've fallen for this many times. Our Heavenly Father ALWAYS wants to talk to us. He ALWAYS wants to forgive us. He ALWAYS loves us, no matter the transgression. It says in the scriptures that even if we make the same mistake 77 x 7 times, we will still be forgiven. That brings me so much comfort. There is always a way back. Sorrow, pain, and guilt can always be replaced with joy, love, and forgiveness. I know that the Atonement has been such an amazing thing in my life. I am so grateful for a Savior that was willing to sacrifice his own life for us to have this incredible gift. He knows and understands how we feel. This also brings such great comfort as often we feel so lonely and that no one understands how we feel. Christ does. He has felt the pain you experience. What a unique connection that is with our Savior. Oh how joyous it is to know that we can always become clean and pure again and feel close to our Heavenly Father and Savior. 

Young Women

Today I'm grateful for my Young Women.

I know I've already said this in a past post, but I'm 1st counselor in the young women's presidency. I was worried to take this calling on, but it has been such a blessing. These young women really are saving me right now. I love these girls so much. I've gained such great relationships with them and admire them for who they are and the good people they are trying to be. They have so much temptation and trial among them, but yet they stay strong in their character. I feel so lucky to have this calling. I love teaching them and helping them to learn of their worth. They are amazing. I really am gaining more from them than they are from me. They always seem to text me the sweetest things on the most needed days. I love that. I never want any other calling. I am so attached! They help motivate me to stay strong. To stay active in this church. And to grow my testimony. I loved the young women's program when I was a youth and feel that it helped my life so much. It is such a great organization and is helping shape these girls lives.

Education

Today I am grateful for our Education.

Jordan and I were both able to attend college. It was very important to us to obtain a college education. Our college days hold such a strong place in our hearts. Starting with the first experiences of moving out, having roommates, and having some of the craziest most fun times of our single lives. And then progressing into our married life college days. Life was simple and we were so happy. We didn't have much, but we were content. We have been blessed with many opportunities of employment and have both really enjoyed our careers. Financial stability has been something we have been truly grateful to have achieved. Jordan and I are both pursuing master programs and are so lucky to do so. Education truly has opened up so many doors for us. I originally did not intend on wanting a career. My dream was to get my bachelor's and to be a stay at home mom. This still is a dream of mine, but my eyes and knowledge have increased so much these past couple of years. I am grateful for all that I have been able to learn. Knowledge is, after all, the only thing we will take with us from this life.

My Upbringing

Today I am grateful for my upbringing

I am so grateful for the childhood my parents provided. I have incredible parents that have taught me thee most valuable lessons to live a successful life. I currently work at a residential treatment center for troubled teens. These girls have so many issues due to bad parenting, unsafe environments, and trauma. It is so sad to see these girls suffer and struggle so much. They do not deserve that. It helps me to realize what a great home I came from. I am so lucky to have been taught how a strong marriage works, healthy coping skills, and my worth. I was able to grow and develop in a stable environment with everything I ever could have needed or asked for. My parents and siblings showed me how a loving family functions. My parents loved me enough to tell me no. To keep me away from trouble and things that would corrupt my life. I always knew I was loved. I always knew I was safe. I always knew that my future was bright. I am so grateful for these things as they have truly shaped the rest of my life.

The Gospel

Today I am grateful for the Gospel.

Truly I do not know how I would get through any heartache and pain without the knowledge and peace from the Gospel. It is true that at times the "natural man" in me wishes to be angry, to be bitter, and to rebel. Sometimes you just don't know where to direct your negative feelings at or where to point the reason for your pain. I know that is Satan working against me. I know that doing this only causes me to be that much more miserable. Whenever I am close to my Savior and Heavenly Father by consistently praying and attending church, miraculous things happen. I receive personal revelation and feel of Their love. I know that they weep with me. I know that They wish to help me through this if I only let them. I know that They want what is best for me. The Gospel truly has given me so much guidance and joy in this life. It is at times such great respite and relief. I recently was called to be 1st counselor in the Young Women's Presidency. I feel that these young women are saving me right now. I so enjoy seeing them at activities and teaching them each week. I get so much joy from them. I am grateful that Heavenly Father trusts me to work with his youth and that he loves me enough to receive the blessings that come from fulfilling callings.